Johanina’s Blog

Last night I watched the movie Wild with Reece Witherspoon portraying the true story of a young woman, Cheryl Strayed who walked the Pacific Coast Trail in search of her Self. I recognized my [...]

Learn to appreciate the "not you" in your partner. Be open, interested and curious about who your partner is and what matters to them.

Published in Alternative Medicine magazine ©Johanina Wikoff. All rights reserved. Rose is on the red-eye flight back home to San Francisco after making love with her new boyfriend Charlie for the [...]

Published in Alternative Medicine magazine, January 2002 ©Johanina Wikoff. All rights reserved. According to Hindu mythology, the sexual and spiritual union of Shiva with Shakti gave birth to the [...]

Published in Alternative Medicine magazine, August 2002 ©Johanina Wikoff. All rights reserved. The best lovemaking happens when we have gone beyond giving and getting, thinking and striving; when [...]

Published in Alternative Medicine magazine, August 2002 ©Johanina Wikoff. All rights reserved. Whether you have been taught not to ask for anything, or are afraid you might take the magic out of [...]

Chapter in progress from the book “The Inner Game of Love” ©2006 Johanina Wikoff. All rights reserved. Our deepest longing is to be loved. Our deepest fear is that we are unlovable. [...]